Epaphroditus – A Man Of Christian Character

In life we find that people are remembered for many reasons. Some for their good deeds and others for their blunders. Epaphroditus is remembered for his character. Oh, how we need men of Christian character. This outlines serves to show us some great aspects of this man’s godliness! 


Title: Epaphroditus – A Man Of Christian Character!”

Text: Philippians 2:25-30

(Philippians 2:25-30) “Yet I supposed it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus, my brother, and companion in labour, and fellowsoldier, but your messenger, and he that ministered to my wants. For he longed after you all, and was full of heaviness, because that ye had heard that he had been sick. For indeed he was sick nigh unto death: but God had mercy on him; and not on him only, but on me also, lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow. I sent him therefore the more carefully, that, when ye see him again, ye may rejoice, and that I may be the less sorrowful. Receive him therefore in the Lord with all gladness; and hold such in reputation: Because for the work of Christ he was nigh unto death, not regarding his life, to supply your lack of service toward me.”  (KJV)

Introduction:

•    Epaphroditus is a man only mentioned, to my knowledge, two times in the Scripture! Yet in these two places we find much about this man whose name means: “handsome” a common name of the era.
•    This man was sent to help Paul and deliver an offering to Paul from the church at Philippi.
•    This church was the first church started after the Macedonian Call of Acts 16.
•    Paul, in this epistle, gave some great doctrine on the “Christian Experience”.
•    We see that this experience is not what is going on around us on the outside, but rather, what is going on in the inside!
•    I want us to notice that Paul mentions some great things about this particular young man that we should learn from!

Proposition: There are four categories of the character of Epaphroditus that I want us to look at this evening!

I.    Notice His Description!


(Philippians 2:25) “Yet I supposed it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus, my brother, and companion in labour, and fellowsoldier, but your messenger, and he that ministered to my wants.”  (KJV)

A.    He is called a brother – a saved man: born again! Paul never doubted his conversion by his fruits!

B.    He is called a companion in labor – a man who shared the burdens of his friend: worked hard overcoming obstacles!

C.    He is called a fellow soldier – a man that fought and stood for the principles of the Scripture: was very much involved in the spiritual warfare of the day!

D.    He is called a messenger – a man who served his church in carrying a message and money to help Paul out: a witness for his local church as well as his God!

E.    May we make it our goal to have these descriptions of character in our lives!

II.    Notice His Desire!

(Philippians 2:26) “For he longed after you all, and was full of heaviness, because that ye had heard that he had been sick.”  (KJV)

A.    He longed after his local church!

B.    He was away from them a long time in his appointed task, but missed his church family!

C.    The heaviness upon his soul was from the fact that they had heard that he had been deathly sick and this bothered him. He did not want to lay an excessive burden upon his people!

D.    He desired to be with God’s people!

III.    Notice His Determination!

(Philippians 2:27) “For indeed he was sick nigh unto death: but God had mercy on him; and not on him only, but on me also, lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow.”  (KJV)

(Philippians 2:30) “Because for the work of Christ he was nigh unto death, not regarding his life, to supply your lack of service toward me.”  (KJV)

(Philippians 4:18) “But I have all, and abound: I am full, having received of Epaphroditus the things which were sent from you, an odour of a sweet smell, a sacrifice acceptable, wellpleasing to God.”  (KJV)

A.    In spite of sickness in his life – his outward circumstances – he pressed on and becomes a living illustration of the whole theme of this epistle!

B.    This man was dieing, yet continued to serve!

C.    This man did not regard his life, but rather was sacrificial the more in his giving in his service!

D.    He completed his mission as good, if not better, than any modern day soldier would on the battlefield!

E.    May we have this unswerving determination to serve God!

IV.    Notice His Discipline!

(Philippians 2:30) “Because for the work of Christ he was nigh unto death, not regarding his life, to supply your lack of service toward me.”  (KJV)

A.    This statement about his character reminds me of the words of our Lord Jesus!

(Luke 9:23) “And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.”  (KJV)

(Luke 14:26) “If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.”  (KJV)

B.    Paul even alluded to this in his second letter to the church at Corinth!

(2 Corinthians 12:15) “And I will very gladly spend and be spent for you; though the more abundantly I love you, the less I be loved.”  (KJV)

C.    He gave his life for God’s service and did not care about himself!

D.    May God give us this type of discipline!

Conclusion:

To The Sinner:

•    Be saved! Repent and believe the Gospel!

To The Christian:

•    Will you endeavor to have character as was described in the life of Epaphroditus?
•    Will you endeavor to live for God regardless of your surrounding circumstances!

Pastoring In Obscurity

Most of God’s men serve in utter obscurity! Known by very few outside their community, God’s men live day by day trying to do the will of the Lord. This divine plan is to carry out their labors without seeking recognition by their peers. If there is any applause ordered, it is usually by those who have been personally helped by their pastor. Contentment with obscurity is contrary to human nature. Yet, this is what God orders for most. After all, God has not forgotten one of His servants and we are supposed to be focused on pleasing HIM only!

Joseph WAS Promoted From Obscurity… 

After living a life in obscurity while languishing in prison, Joseph was promoted to Vice President of Egypt. The Scripture is silent about the thoughts and feelings of this perfect type of Christ. Every pastor ponders what went through this young man’s mind. However, we can see that these years prepared him for his greatest role. Every now and then, God brings forth a vessel to place on His mantle piece. Just such a thing happened to Joseph!

What A Sight…

(1 Peter 5:6) “Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:”  (KJV)

What a beautiful sight to behold when God brings glory to himself through casting a spotlight on His man! On the other hand, it is a despicable sight to see a preacher that elevates himself. Every man of God can embrace the old nature’s desire for recognition, and act wrong with it. There is nothing sinful about wanting to be recognized for our labors, but we should let God elevate us. We are to humble ourselves and let God exalt us!

God Knows Best…

Great lessons of life are ingrained, experiences gained, and precepts are passed on because of a life of obscurity! Never should we despise the day of small things, nor should we be unhappy with our place of service. God is the Lord of the Harvest. He knows best where to plant His seeds. Though easier said than done, we should bloom where we are planted!

Conclusion…

Whether your place of service is in a large city, or a small unheard of hamlet, be content! When we think we are spinning our wheels, we are often doing the most good. Our estimation of the ministry, which God has so graciously given to us, is not always correct in its assessment. God is really good at keeping records, and one day the books will be opened. May we strive for that day, even though we may now live in obscurity!

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The Remedy For Anger And Frustration

It is so easy to get angry and frustrated at others, our surroundings and ourselves. In fact, it is easier to do that than to face the problem and do RIGHT! Whatever is causing you to get upset and robbing you of your joy, is not worth it! This sermon outline helps us see how we should behave as God’s people!



Title: “The Remedy For Anger And Frustration!”


Text: Psalm 37:1-8

(Psalms 37:1-8) <> “Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb. Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed. Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass. And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light, and thy judgment as the noonday. Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.”  (KJV)

Introduction:

•   In my estimation, David addresses a common problem that men and women face, gives a remedy for it and supports the remedy throughout the remainder of the Psalm.
•    The phrase “fret not” is used 4x in the Bible. It is found three times in our text and is mentioned in Proverbs 24:19.

(Proverbs 24:19) “Fret not thyself because of evil men, neither be thou envious at the wicked;”  (KJV)

•    The word “fret” literally means to grow warm or to glow. It is used figuratively to express the idea of blazing up. I am always using the phrase, “Fired up” and this is exactly what we are said not to do!
•    The word Hebrew word for “fret” is first used in the Bible in Genesis. Consider:

(Genesis 4:5) “But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell.”  (KJV)

•    Consider how it is used in the book of Numbers where Moses is dealing with them wanting flesh to eat!

(Numbers 11:10) “Then Moses heard the people weep throughout their families, every man in the door of his tent: and the anger of the LORD was kindled greatly; Moses also was displeased.”  (KJV)

(Numbers 11:33) “And while the flesh was yet between their teeth, ere it was chewed, the wrath of the LORD was kindled against the people, and the LORD smote the people with a very great plague.”  (KJV)

•    God is not guilty of sinful anger, but He is righteous. On the other hand, we human beings are very susceptible to sin when we fret!
•    In our text we see that “fret” has the idea that we fume to the point of worry, anger, jealousy, etc.
•    Many of us look at others and our individual situations and see what seems to be unfair.
•    To the Semitic mind, material wealth was a symbol of Divine blessing, however, we know that just because wealth is accumulated, that it does not mean one is under divine favor.
•    As we look around us we see people who are living it up and are wicked and lawless. Those who are doing right seem to be the ones who are in drudgery.

“Nature is very apt to kindle a fire of jealousy when it sees lawbreakers riding on horses, and obedient subjects walking in the mire: it is a lesson learned only in the school of grace…” Charles Hadden Spurgeon

•    David brings up this problem that, all too often, occurs among God’s saints, and that is the problem of anger and frustration.
•    I know at first glance we see fret as the idea of simply worrying, but there is more to the word “fret” in our text.
•    David provides a remedy for the one who is troubled with his lot in life in comparison with those around them!
•    David provides a remedy for the one who is angry with the prominence of the wicked!
•    David provides a remedy for the one who is jealous of his neighbor!
•    David provides a remedy for the one who is impatient with God over his circumstances!
•    David provides a remedy for everyone who is fretful over the ills of their society!

Proposition: There are four principles that we need to apply to our heart if we are to get over our anger and frustration!

I.    Don’t Fret, But Trust In The Lord! Verse 3

(Psalms 37:3) “Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.”  (KJV)

     A.    “Trust” means to hide for refuge, which is to avail yourself of refuge in God as if you were gasping for air!

     B.    David expresses the utter futility of one’s anger over what others are doing and gaining even though they appear not to be worthy of it!

     C.    In short, he says, “Why fret when you can avail yourself of God and let Him provide by His omnipotent hand!”

     D.     You and I need to realize that we should not fret because of evil doers, but we should trust God to make things right!

II.    Don’t Fret, But Delight Thyself In The Lord! Verse 4

(Psalms 37:4) “Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.”  (KJV)

     A.    “Delight” means to make soft or pliable. On other words, we should not fret, but allow ourselves to be moldable and pliable in God’s hands!

     B.    Man often looks around himself and sees all of these injustices, and feels like it is his RIGHT to take out vengeance.

     C.    David says that to act in this fashion is contrary to God’s purpose.

     D.    We should take the position that we have nothing to gain by trying to get back at people. We should let God shape us into a “vessel unto honor, sanctified, and meet for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work!”

     E.    As you die to the world, flesh and the Devil, as a Holy Spirit filled Christian, you can be a disciple of the Lord Jesus. Deny yourself and take up your cross and follow Him!

     F.    To delight in God is to deny you! This concept is foreign to the flesh, but enjoyed by the saint!

     G.    God promises to reward this behavior!

“and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.”

III.    Don’t Fret, But Commit Thy Way Unto The Lord! Verse 5

(Psalms 37:5) “Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.”  (KJV)

     A.    “Commit” means to roll down, or to remove. We used to say that someone was committed to an institution. They were removed from society and committed to hospital, etc.

     B.    The word “wallow” is a good word of imagery. A pig wallows down the mud and just saturates himself in the slime of his surroundings. You and I can wallow ourselves in God’s Will in spite of what our surrounding seem to be! By the way, the pig never complains!

     C.    In essence, David is saying that we should not fret, but willingly remove ourselves from our likes and dislikes and just be like what Paul described in Romans 12 as a living sacrifice. We just look for God’s leadership and plan for our lives so we can be what He intended us to be!

     D.    You could say that we should not compare ourselves to others, but commit ourselves to the Lord Jesus! 


IV.    Don’t Fret, But Rest In The Lord! Verse 7

(Psalms 37:7) “Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass.”  (KJV)

     A.    “Rest” means to be dumb, literally. It does not mean that you have no intellect, but rather your communication skills are ceasing to operate!

     B.    In other words, David literally is saying that we should not fret but keep our mouths shut and not complain. We should wait patiently on God to do what He deems is appropriate!

     C.    We should rest not wrestle! Wait on God and He will fight for you!

     D.    You and I miss out on seeing the power of God displayed in our lives because we do not rest in the Lord!

     E.    A dead man in a coffin is not fretting about the situation going on around him as far as we can see!

Conclusion:

To The Sinner:

•    Sinner be saved!

To The Christian:

•    Take the prescription for your anger and frustration from Dr. David, King of Israel!
•    He learned many things in the school of hard knocks and I believe that he would know best!

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